I'm the father of three daughters. As each one left home for college, I found myself living through the same ritual. My oldest lived in a sorority house — parking was never nearby, so every evening she had to walk back alone after dark. Without fail, she would call me as soon as she got out of her car. We would stay on the phone until she was safely inside. That became our nightly routine. Not because she was overly cautious or I was overprotective, but because until she walked through that front door, none of us felt completely at ease.
When my second daughter left for college in New York City, those concerns only grew. When my youngest enrolled at the University of Delaware, orientation leaders proudly pointed out blue emergency phones across campus and talked about new mobile safety apps. On paper, both seemed like progress.
But nothing changed. She still called when she left her part-time job at night. She still called after leaving the library. She still called whenever she had to walk back to her apartment alone. The blue light phones didn't change her behavior. Neither did the apps.
Then, years after my daughters graduated, I kept hearing the same stories from friends and family. Their kids were heading off to college, and they had the same worries, the same late-night phone calls, the same quiet anxiety. Every conversation brought it rushing back. I started researching. And I found that nothing had changed. The same blue lights. The same apps with the same fundamental flaw. The gap between what students needed and what existed had only grown more obvious.
I knew I could do better.